I really noticed the potential for "old people" to invade what I thought should be my generation's domain of social networking this summer when my mom (prompted by a Newsweek piece on Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg) asked me if I use Facebook or MySpace. Without Newsweek, I doubt she'd even know what they were.
But the fact is a lot of adults are on Facebook and MySpace and increasingly want virtual contact with family members, creating some intergenerational clashes, as this MSNBC article discusses:
Nowhere are the technological turf wars more apparent than on social networking sites, such as MySpace and Facebook, which went from being student-oriented to allowing adults outside the college ranks to join.
Gary Rudman, a California-based youth market researcher, has heard the complaints. He regularly interviews young people who think it's ``creepy'' when an older person -- we're talking someone they know -- asks to join their social network as a ``friend.'' It means, among other things, that they can view each others' profiles and what they and their friends post.
``It would be like a 40-year-old attending the prom or a frat party,'' Rudman says. ``It just doesn't work.''
The social acceptability, or awkwardness, issue stems mostly from lack of clear etiquette guidelines on these sites (college students aren't immune: many people choose to "friend" everyone they've ever met). For instance, I didn't think it was awkward to friend my aunt after we discussed the different demographic appeal of Facebook and MySpace, but I would have thought it was really weird if she'd friended me out of the blue. I still try to limit our Facebook interaction to messaging, although she seems to be fairly active based on her profile and the number of wall posts.
It seems that navigating the frontiers of social networking will take some time and adjustment from both generations. I may be Facebook friends with my aunt, who seems fairly adept online, but I won't be showing my mom how to set up a profile anytime soon.
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